Posted By: cl-owly_2001 on
Wednesday, August 1st, 2007, 9:26 am
Karmic Soulmates
are the most common soulmate type, simply because as human beings we
tend to make a lot of mistakes during our evolutionary process. These
are the souls who have shared at least one previous incarnation
together that ended on a sour note. They meet up with each other again
in a subsequent lifetime with the intent of working on resolving any
past lessons/rectifying any adverse karma, which affords them the
opportunity to attain closure and move on.
It's certainly possible for these souls to progress to the next level
of the union (and to eventually become Companion Soulmates) instead of
separating if both parties strongly desire this and apply mutual
effort. However, usually at least one partner deviates from such a path
over time because to conquer all of these goals in a singular lifetime
and then to still have sufficient affection/desire to be with the
alternate party proves too daunting.
In fact, it's not uncommon for Karmic Soulmates to actually create new
lessons and accrue more adverse karma as opposed to alleviating the old
(again, if both don't put forth equal effort and dedication to
remedying issues). Such a partnership (whether platonic, romantic, or
business) can have several ruptures either before the relationship ever
truly gets off the ground or before the permanent severing of ties.
Although some Karmic Soulmates are lovers (or even marry), or are
friends, or work together for a long amount of time in an effort to
achieve their pre chosen spiritual goals - the union is unhappy,
problematic, and/or cyclic (up/down, hot/cold, love/hate, on/off) at
some juncture nonetheless; whether they ultimately go their separate
ways or progress to the next level. More succinctly, even if Karmic
Soulmate unions start off wonderfully and end wonderfully (which is not
real common) there is still at least one in-between phase (but, more
often than not, several in-between phases) that is quite challenging.
Oftentimes, too - despite any past karma or lessons being conquered -
each party invariably goes their separate way in order to be free to
encounter other soulmates who await him or her. This is because, again,
more often than not the main intent between Karmic Soulmates is not to
be long-term partners again in the first place but, rather, to triumph
over former matters if possible, attain closure, and then move on. If
this is not accomplished, or if additional adverse karma is accrued,
they can end up encountering each other in lifetime after lifetime
until they finally get it “right” or until one decides to wholly
release the other forevermore. One, if not all, of the variables below
usually affect a Karmic Soulmate union:
*Physical or Geographical Ruptures/Distancing
*Third Party Interference
*Chronic Indecision and/or Inability of One Partner to Make a Firm Commitment
*The Timing is Amiss
Please note: by the phrase “The Timing is Amiss” I am not referring to
some higher power or destiny causing the timing between Karmic
Soulmates to be counterproductive. Rather, I am referring to free will
here. For example, if you choose to fall in love with someone knowing
that he/she is already married, and he/she says to you, “I’d love to
have a life with you but the timing couldn’t be worse because I am
married.” What this really means is, “I choose
not to leave my spouse for you at this time (if ever).” In other words,
bad timing simply means that either of you have excuses for not giving
the other what he/she wants at the time he/she wants it (if ever at
all).
Companion Soulmates, on the other
hand, are those we pre choose to work on establishing a profoundly
loving, enriching, and enduring union with; to teach to, learn from,
grow with, and be partners for a lengthy duration - even a lifetime.
Even though we can learn and grow from any relationship type, Companion
Soulmates experience many wonderful, healthy rewards in the process!
This type of relationship is very comfortable, respectful, honest,
supportive, affectionate, loving, secure, committed, and all that good
stuff. Although every relationship has its ups and downs, Companion
Soulmate unions are centered on mutual love and respect even during
times of adversity and conflict.
Yes, some Companion Soulmates can encounter delays or impediments
before coming together in paradise, yet, in almost all instances both
parties will take the necessary action to be together in a timely
manner. I.e., if your Companion Soulmate is married when you two first
meet, he/she won't keep you "dangling" for years on end before he/she
divorces their mate in order to be with you.
Simultaneously, a Companion Soulmate more than likely won’t become
romantically/sexually involved with you in the first place whilst
married if this would be deceptive to and/or hurt others in the
process. Rather, he/she would be inclined to divorce prior to
initiating such a union with you. A partner who can cheat on their
spouse with you, can cheat on you at a later time with another, even if you are fully convinced he/she would never do such a thing to you. Companion Soulmates don’t engage in selfish, destructive behavior in order to be together.
Additionally, not all Companion Soulmate unions begin with an intense
romantic attraction or strong physical passion at all. In fact, a fair
portion of true Companion Soulmates are founded more on friendship than
emotional highs and fleeting moments of lust. They develop a deep,
spiritual love and friendship which transcends the ego wants and needs
of romance.
Soulmate Cusp is when a couple teeters on the edge of becoming Karmic Soulmates or Companion
Soulmates, but cannot really be classified as either one until certain
events have transpired because no definitive pre chosen spiritual goal
was made. One could view this akin to a non soulmate or “transitional”
phase. Therefore, the term "Soulmate Cusp" indicates that the final
conclusion of the relationship could go either way contingent upon
certain factors.
On the surface, any of these relationship types can seem so similar at
the onset that a person may confuse them; believing that a Karmic
Soulmate is their Companion Soulmate or that a Passionmate is their
Companion Soulmate. Etc. This usually happens because - whether the
relationship be Karmic, Companion, Limbotic, Twin, or Passion based -
in the beginning of any type of relationship one might experience any
of the following: an intense emotional attraction; strong physical
passion; the sensation of déjà vu or an empathic/telepathic connection;
pervasive thoughts to the effect of, "I KNOW I am supposed to be with
this person. I can just FEEL it. This is THE partner for me," etc. If
you are wrong and believe that one is the other then you could set
yourself up for a lot of heartache.
The bottom line is that Companion Soulmates are not obsessive with nor
abusive toward each other. If you just can't "live" without your
partner; obsessively dwell on him/her; fight frequently; feel
persistently angry, rejected, neglected, lonely, frustrated, and/or
disappointed; are betrayed or cheated on; your partner refuses to
commit; there are prolonged episodes of separation or geographical
distancing, ad nauseam - it's very unlikely that person is your true
Companion Soulmate no matter how "connected to" to or "in love" you may
be with him or her. You can refer to such a partner as your Companion
Soulmate until you are blue in the face but this will not negate the
fact that said individual is not healthy for you and the potential of
the union either flourishing and/or enduring is relatively nil.
Intriguingly enough, some clients write to me and make statements to
the effect of, "This person lies to me, cheats on me, pushes me away,
hurts me, won't commit, et al but I just know he/she is my soulmate."
Yikes! If a person mistreats you, or is emphatic that he/she does not
want to be with you, or takes forever to be with you then that
individual is not your Companion Soulmate. Sorry. All the wishing in
the world won't alter this because Companion Soulmates both desire to
be together, both make effort to commit to each other in a timely
manner, and both treat each other with love, honesty, and respect.
Then again, a person does not have to be spiritually defined a soulmate
in order for you to experience either a miserable or a loving
relationship with him/her no matter how long the union lasts. Even
soulmates have to have a "first time" here on Mother Earth. As such,
some of us certainly do meet entirely new individuals during our
present lifetime who are not metaphysically regarded soulmates but who
can become so over time.
Finally, there can certainly be exceptions in any kind of relationship
- even Companion Soulmate relationships - so it's always best to use as
unbiased an approach as possible when attempting to ascertain precisely
"who" your partner may be.
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love, soulmates, karma
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